On Swinging and Consent

Twice in my life—that I can remember, both while drunk—I touched someone without consent. Specifically, I touched men. I touched their genitals over their pants. Even though both incidents were more than ten years ago, even though I’ve done tons of inner work, therapy and self-forgiveness work around them, I still feel guilty. But, as […]

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Help! Eating Pussy for the First Time

“She’s straight.” My friend says to her bestie, frowning. Bestie’s mouth opens wide in shock. “I don’t believe her.” Maybe straight girls exist, but I’m increasingly skeptical. Something like 87% of women have a sexual fantasy that involves another woman, and the others describe their sexuality something other than strictly heterosexual on the Kinsey Scale. […]

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