I can’t tell you how to choose your play partners, but I can tell you how we choose ours. In my post, “Do you notice yourself getting pickier,” I said: “Now, having played a lot, we’ve learned much about what types of experiences we most like, what’s important to us in play and potential play […]
Continue ReadingThe other night we had such ecstatic sex it felt canonical. You know, one of those nights you’ll remember and reminisce about for a long time, even forever? I realized that it was made possible by two key lessons we learned from swinging. Here they are. 1. Sex is just play One thing we both […]
Continue ReadingAs I mentioned in another post, I recently appeared on Girls Gone Deep. On the show, I mentioned how I masturbate to things I am afraid of to train myself to find them arousing. For example, I masturbated to the image or idea of full-swapping (having penetrative sex with another couple) hundreds of times before […]
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