We talk about this extensively in our forthcoming book, Playing Together, but since it’s not out yet, let me speak to this here. “Are you two swingers?” My gorgeous friend asked me from across the bar. “I don’t know? Maybe?” I responded, not knowing exactly what she was asking. That was one year before the […]
Continue ReadingAdmittedly it’s work. But oh my god is it worth it. Although receiving is also delicious—watching breasts-bounce and a woman’s mouth agape while she watches me in pleasure, feeling her body against mine, soft and supple—here, I’m talking about being the one wearing the strap-on. I was always a humper. I love to hump, and […]
Continue ReadingFor twelve months, every time someone offered us a drink, we declined. But long before our year of sobriety, we stopped drinking in Lifestyle settings. It was our couple’s therapist who pointed out that alcohol was involved in every single one of our biggest fights. There were two in one year that were so epic […]
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