I asked a couple on a cruise what they were into and the husband responded, “Well, I like two or three girls, and she can handle four or five guys.” My jaw dropped. “That’s an option?!” The woman smiled, proud. My gangbang fantasy, which had been boiling and brimming up to consciousness intermittently for decades, was officially born.
I imagine starting with two men. I can sit on one’s face while I suck on the other. Then I can ride one while I suck the other, or go for an Eiffel Tower. I assume my jaw will get tired, but that’s okay. Then three guys. I’ll ride one’s face while I suck on the other two. Or one can play with my tits while the others thrust into my mouth and my wet pussy. Then four guys. Maybe I’m ready for double penetration. Or maybe I’m feeling the classic, one in the mouth, one in the pussy, one in each hand. Then five. Now we’re getting to the point where someone will need to stroke themselves and wait until I can get to them. I love that part.
Is there an element of shame in the gangbang fantasy? Although widespread in porn, you hear less about it in surveys about people’s sexual fantasies. It’s like an orgy in a lot of ways: group sex, no need for equal numbers of men and women; but what makes it unique is the male to female ratio, which I think needs to be at least two to one, ideal is three or more to one.
A$AP Rocky implied during an interview that gangbangs and orgies are as old as time, “And why not? Let’s smoke some good weed in the teepee and have a fun time! Heh heh!” He’s not wrong! “There is a good reason the sound of a woman enjoying a sexual encounter entices a heterosexual man. Her ‘copulation call’ is a potential invitation to come hither, thus provoking sperm competition.” (Sex at Dawn, Chapter 19). That’s right, there is a strong basis to believe one reason women moan during sex is to attract other men. Honestly, this makes good evolutionary sense: What better way than an orgy to ensure (1) competition for the best semen in baby-making, and (2) that the whole village will be invested in any given child (because no one knows exactly who the daddy is and all the daddies like to fuck mommy)? Of course, men do not feel any shame for a fantasy involving more than two women. Why should women feel any shame about desiring many men? Not to mention during war times or other disasters when women were shared, I think there is a strong historical and genetic basis for this fantasy. So if there is shame, let us set it aside once and for all today. This fantasy is biological!
I’ve been watching gangbangs and asking myself what I find so arousing about it, and now I’m ready to share. May my erotic wants be fuel for your own.
Men working as a team to fuck me
I love this scene from Mai Lin v. Serena (1982), showing how playful a gangbang can be, and how the men are not actually averse to one another but in it as a team. They are all working together, making room when needed, cheering for one another, as if fucking me is a sport. I would love to participate in the Olympic Games of fucking.
There were like five girls and ten guys, we all just took turns.
A$AP Rocky
I also think a gangbang with a girl-friend could be even more fun than one just by myself, because then I am on a team too. 😏 It’s all for fun anyway, let’s make a game of it.
Being that plaything all the boys want to try
What a fun toy I must be. All the boys want to play with me but, tsk tsk, they have to be good and share. So, it’s not just teamwork, it’s also that every guy wants me for himself, to have a good time playing with me. To be sure, if this was about just fucking and cumming, there are easier ways. Being desired by so many, and so many at once deeply excites me. Add that to being used, one of my core turn-ons and…whew! I love feeling someone use me for their own pleasure, taking what they want. Like I am a pleasure machine. It has to be done in a way that I feel empowered, but still, I love the idea of a bunch of men using me. Even more, I love the idea of being passed around, or making my way down a line of guys.
My own appetite excites me. I want to make every man come. In a way, I’m a slave. Slave to my own desires. Slave to the undulating cocks before me. I have a job to do, and I want to do it. This scene from Joy (1977) captures how happy a woman can be pleasuring multiple men at once. Look at how excited she is!
THAT is how I want men leaving my gangbang.
Testosterone, Animality, Aggression
One reddit commentor argued there are basically two kinds of gangbangs: the ones that are focused on the woman’s pleasure, and the ones that are focused on the men’s pleasure. Both excite me, but the latter category definitely gets me hotter. I grin at the imaginary sounds of multiple men being pleasured and orgasming from my touch. I see them fighting for my attention, taking what they want, heaving over me as they do. I love allowing boys to be boys and men to be men. Let them show their animal nature. In this vein, this scene from Gangbang (1985) nails it.
I love how two hold her arms back to make her mouth available for their other friend. How they rip her clothes off together. There is an element of male aggression. Even female aggression. And an element of fear. All these men and all their power, it’s enough power to overwhelm me. It’s a little scary. But I like that fear. It turns me on. And this is not unusual, fear is a notorious aphrodisiac. Not unlike what BDSM community members often espouse, that fear allows the most empowering realization: I am in control (of all these men!). My pussy gushes at the thought.
After I watched this scene from Gangbang, I asked Mr. Honey to fuck me and repeat, “I’m going to fuck the shit out of you, bitch.” He fish-hooked me and I gushed. Even without a gang, there are ways to play with these fantasies at home.
Men Competing and Waiting for Me (with their dick in their hands)
There is an element of competition, no? All these men want to fuck me, but who will I fuck first? What an arousing choice. I love the idea of teasing multiple men at once, getting to each of their needs at my own, deliberate pace. I love the idea of being so good or desirable that men would wait for me. In the scene, above, from Gangbang, my favorite part might be the bartender, who just watches. I want to be such a great show that it’s worth it to be there even if you just watch. What a powerful demonstration of sexual prowess.
There are so many things that are erotic in this iconic set up with Mai Lin and Serena. All the cum on their breasts. How lazily they get to each man, with a sort of, “I’ll do what I please, when I please,” mentality. Their simultaneous teamwork and lighthearted competition. My favorite part though, is all the men, waiting in line to be touched.
Now it’s your turn. Which of these did you find the hottest, and why? Let your mind wander, let your imagination explore and be uncensored.
I leave you with a gorgeous shot from the visionary, Carlos Tobalina. Tis the dream.
Much love to you, future teammate.
😘😘 Honey